Introduction and First Entry

I am writing this blog based on my own experience and opinions. This is mostly based on the fact that Dr. Phil commonly quotes "The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
     My first entry is about online dating, and how fast you should give someone your number. This entry is triggered by once again I gave my number too fast and got a crazy.
    Generally my rule is DO NOT give your number or recieve someone elses in the first 3 days of conversating online with this person. My reasons for this are...

1. Most guys online that ask for your number online right away are unusually persistant. They will text over and over again when you dont answer right away they get extremely agitated. Its very disturbing. If someone gets angry because you take too long to answer a text or dont return calls right way beware these are red flags for controlling and abusive behavior.
2. They are lazy and looking for immediate gratification. They will not be willing to do anything to impress you which will travel over to the relationship in the form of selfishness and definatly wont go out of his way to make you happy.
3. They will just have unusual values, and will argue with you they will put yours down in order to make you feel like you would be lucky if he accepted you. These guys are con-artists of the heart.  

    In conclusion nothing good can come from giving a guy your number online in the first 3 days. Dont fal for lame excuses like the one I always get is "oh im not on here alot and I want to get to know you." Well my answer to that is that its just as easy to check this site as it is to check your email or facebook everyday. Also if they care to get to know you like they say they do then you should expect the effort put forth from him that you deserve. You are Special and deserve to get treated like a Queen.