It seems the only time whole families get together these days is weddings and funerals. Gone are the days of yearly week long family reunions. Young people are more concerned with whats going on in the street then whats going on at home.
I have a God mother. She and her family took me in as one of there own. Today my Big mama died. Her name was Helen. She from what I understand was a very strong smart intelligent woman. She lived a long and full life. Now everyone who was never around is popping out like cockroaches in the dark putting there 2 cents in about what they thought of her and what should happen now that she is gone. Some of these people I have never seen the whole time I have known this family. Why is it no one cares until someone dies. I would think it would be more important to be around in life instead of acting like you cared so much now that that person is gone. That person don't care about you showing it now they are in heaven with out a worry or care in Gods arms. What I am saying is appreciate people now today while they are here. Bring food for the living now share meals, tell stories, listen and laugh now. Don't wait til some one dies to get together and share your family history hear those stories from the source. Elderly people are full of inspiration and wisdom better than a Tyler Perry movie can provide.
